Ive never personally been to one. Ive been to a normal bar in my small town and everyone stays in their own groups.. I always feel weird and awkward at them. (this is probably because ive always just thought i was bi, and in the last year or two come to realize that im straight up gay. So dancing around with guys staring at me felt awkward lol)
My best friend is a lesbian, and she has been to plenty of lesbian bars/clubs. Her opinion is that its awkward until you have a few drinks…lesbians dont know how to dance and gay guys are great dancers, and its like a meat market… haha..
I just want to know, have you ever been to one? what is your take on them? have you stayed in contact with anyone you met there? id like opinions cause one day, id like to give it a shot! :)
I think what you get out of them varies depending upon what you’re looking for.
They can be a meat market, yes. But that’s what I go there for, so to me I love going. But if you’re looking for someone to have a relationship with, it might be awkward at first, and you might be put off by the environment.
You also need to find one that caters to the kind of women you’re interested in. I’ve noticed that some tend to be more butchy, for example, while others attract a more diverse crowd. Since I prefer femme girls, I don’t usually hang out at those where the women are mostly butch. If you’re not in a larger city, you may find there’s only one or two (if that) clubs to begin with, whereas if you’re in a larger city there might be a larger variety. You might see if you can find a forum or discussion board specific to your city and ask around a bit.
Oh, and I take issue with your best friend’s assertion that “lesbians can’t dance.” I can, and plenty of the women I’ve seen at the clubs can. Maybe she’s hanging out in the wrong place. Haha. :p
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